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This is a great spot in which to find yourself when looking for vacancies in someone's heart.Coming second to the greatest loves of someone's life ain't all that bad.Being wise is the product of intelligence and experience combined.That being said, I think as we grow, we become more open to looking for love in other areas.Dating someone with kids when you still feel like something of a kid yourself can be a challenge.To some (myself included), age ain't nothin' but a number.Take from it what you will: Wait Even though my boyfriend was eager to introduce me to his kiddo early on, we waited a long time before it actually happened.
How well has your guy worked through the angst of his marriage ending? Some will try to alienate their children from their father as well as his new partner.
The only books I could find were about step-parenting. Considering the divorce rate in this country, I thought finding the advice would be easy. *crickets* My relationship with this man continued for... But I did learn a LOT about the kiddos and how to deal with them.
So here is my advice about dating people with kids.
If you do, you're a little ahead of the game because most parents understand the unconditional love and responsibilities they have for their kids. If you don't have kids, you may be a little more challenged but that's okay if you are willing to explore these 6 things you MUST find about: 1.
Divorce is a type of death and requires a process of grief, even when one may have desperately wanted the divorce. Most men live with guilt post-divorce, even when a divorce is more than warranted. BTW, if he's separated versus divorced, consider that a red flag. If he has a hostile relationship with his ex, you can expect a lot more complications than what will already naturally exist when dating or living with a guy who has kids.
I hold high respect for anyone who puts others first.